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Is Sexual
Compatibility
Important in Your Relationship?
Let's face it, some level of
sexual compatibility is evident in any new
love relationship.
However
sexuality and physical attraction alone do not make a "lasting
relationship".
If you try to build a foundation on just sexual
attraction, the relationship will eventually crash and burn.
That shouldn't come as a surprise to most of you.
On the other side, finding a partner that you are NOT sexually
compatible may also be a mistake.
So what's the
solution?
- A
relationship that has both a sexual attraction
AND can
develop and grow over time into a long and
healthy relationship.
- It's
perfectly natural find a partner that you have an initial sexual
attraction to. After all, you may not know much about them in
the
beginning.
- Exploring the intricacies of your sexuality
enhances
self-awareness, and it promotes self-growth and the successful
communication of your sexual needs to your partner.
- Sex
and attraction are elements in virtually all scientific models of
romantic love and attachment.
- It is believe that along with money, sex is one
of the leading causes
of conflicts within a relationship.
OK, now that we've explained that sexual compatibility is important in
a relationship, let us show you a
few ways you can tell if you and your partner are compatible...sexually.
- Are
you both on the same page when it comes to how you feel about
expression yourself...sexually?
- Are
you both accepting of specific sexual expressions?
- Are
you both at the same comfort level when it comes to discussing and
negotiating sexual issues?
- How
will you know if you're sexually compatible, without having sex?
Well,
first, you have to separate the difference between sex and
sexual
compatibility.
People just have sex sometimes instead of
facing
the difficulties in their relationship and effectively communicating
their feelings.
Once the romantic excitement is over, what you're left with is someone
you don’t really know.
We
believe that the more trust, communication and love you have in a
relationship, the more likely you are to be sexually compatible.
Sex
in a lasting relationship will continue to grow and be enjoyable as you
continue to grow together as a couple outside of the bedroom.
Meeting
your partner's needs above your own and working on communicating your
needs to each other is the first step to ensuring sexual compatibility.
In addition to the sexual
compatibility discussion here, don't forget our other topics
in the flirting section
such as: flirting advice,
introduce
yourself, pickup
lines, body
language, social
network and love names.
And if you are still
looking
for
that perfect someone, we have some great advice
that is sure to help you out, such as:
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