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Online Dating
Safety Tips
You Need To Know
Online
Dating Safety is extremely important...and one must be very careful
when
starting a relationship online with someone they do not know.
The
Dating Relationship Professionals have put together some safety tips
for online dating in order to make sure you are safe from harm
Take it Slow
and Easy
- While dating online and starting a relationship
over the internet it is important to slow down and start out cautious.
- Be
on the lookout for someone who seems too good to be true.

- Begin by
first communicating solely via email.
- Be suspicious of odd behavior or
inconsistencies.
- Remember that the person at the other end may
not be who or what he/she says.
- Trust your instincts. If anything makes
you uncomfortable, walk away for your own safety and protection.
Protect Your
Privacy
- Online
dating safety includes protecting your privacy.
- Never include
your last name, real email address, personal Web site URL, home
address, phone number, place of work, or any other identifying
information in your profile or initial emails you exchange with other
members.
- Take all the time you need to become
comfortable with
someone before revealing any personal contact information.
- Ask
questions and make sure you are satisfied with the answers.
- Trust your
instincts, move cautiously and be selective.
Practice Good
Common Sense
- Any
suitor must earn your trust gradually, through consistently honorable,
forthright behavior.
- Your job is to take all the time you need to
test
for a trustworthy person, and pay careful attention along the way.
- If you think someone is lying, it is likely
that they are, so act accordingly.
- Move on to someone you can
eventually trust.
- Conduct
yourself and your romances in a responsible manner. Don't fall in love
at the click of a mouse.
- Don't become prematurely intimate with
someone, even if that intimacy only occurs online.
Talk on the
Telephone
- A
phone call can reveal much about a person's communication and social
skills. It is worth the cost of the call to protect your security. But
do not give out your personal phone number to a stranger. Try a cell
phone number instead for added security.
- Or make arrangements to call from a pay phone.
Only when you feel completely comfortable should you furnish your phone
number.
Only Meet
When You Are Ready
- One
of the best online dating safety tips reminds us not to rush into
anything. You are never obligated to meet anyone, regardless
of
your level of online intimacy. And even if you do decide to arrange a
meeting, you always have the right to change your mind.
- Go with
your gut instincts, even when they can't be logically explained. Never
meet someone alone for the first time. Bring a friend...and
definitely tell your family or friends where you are going, when you
will return and with whom.
- Leave your date's name and telephone
number with that person. Never arrange for your date to pick you up at
home. Provide your own transportation, meet in a public place at a time
when many people are present, and when the date is over, leave on your
own as well.
- Avoid hikes, bike rides or drives in remote
areas
for the first few dates. If you decide to move to another location,
take your own car. When the timing is appropriate, thank your date for
getting together and say goodbye.
Be Prepared
to Split
- Never
do anything you feel unsure about. If you are in any way afraid of your
date, use your best judgment to diffuse the situation and get out of
there.
- Excuse yourself long enough to call a friend
for advice,
ask someone else on the scene for help, or slip out of the back door
and drive away.
- If you feel you are in danger call the police.
It's always better to be safe than sorry. Never worry or feel
embarrassed about your behavior. Your safety is much more important
than one person's opinion of you.
Online dating safety is
extremely important. You may want to check out a dating club, speed dating
and fitness singles
in the American singles
section for safe
alternatives to online dating.
In addition to the online
dating safety section here, you can find other Love Hurts topics (and how
to deal with them) in the cheating
relationship, bad
relationship, breakups,
abusive
relationships and broken
heart sections.
And if you are still
looking
for
that perfect someone, we have some great advice
that is sure to help you out, such as:


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