 |
 |
Love Tests are
More about Instinct
and Less about Scores
Everywhere you turn there are
love tests and love quizzes.
What are these geared for?
Basically, they provide a means for you to assess if your special
someone is right for you.
Only true love makes us happy, however millions of people enter
relationships for much different reasons than true love.
Love
quizzes (or tests) of love are a way for us to confirm if we have found
the right partner to share our lives with.
Or at least start
a
serious relationship with.
Don't fall into the trap of taking an
online test to check your love, and being satisfied because your scored
an 8.6 out of 10 on the love compatibility test.
 Take a look at
the entire big picture. Love and relationships are all about
trust, understanding, communication, respect, and so on.
But
there are some great uses of the questions included in these
love
tests.
Take a look at the questions below. As you read
through them see how strongly they apply to your situation.
Have
a friend your trust help you come up with your own list that is
important to you. He/she might be better able to help see
past
the emotion.
Rather than grading the love tests and giving
yourself a score, we ask that use a more simpler approach....What does
your instinct tell you about the entire test as a whole? Do
you
answer strongly to most of these?
Or are you missing the boat?
It doesn't take a mathematician to figure out if that person is right
for you. What does your "get feelings" tell you?
OK, for the
Ladies:
How
do you know if this might the right man for you?
There are some basic
qualities that make your desires unique, write a list of the qualities
you're looking for.
Narrow it down to the top 5 or 6 that you
absolutely must have in your relationship.
Here is a list of
qualities you may want to consider.
- Does he has admirable integrity?
- Do you respect him as a person and as a man?
- Does he respects you as a person and as a woman?
- Does he treats you with respect?
- Does he makes you feel beautiful?
- Does he makes you feel special?
- Does he makes you feel important?
- Is he proud to introduce you to his family and
friends?
- Is he happy to spend money on you, and likes to
buy you gifts--not necessarily expensive, just thoughtful?
- Does he do things to help you solve problems,
and wants to make your life nicer and easier?
- Is he responsible with money?
Write
down your answers if you have to.
Do you have a lot more
yes's
than no's.
Do you have a lot of "heck no's"?
What
is the
overall impression of how he scores?
Now for the
guys:
How
do you know if she is the right woman for you? Same rules apply...write
a list of the qualities you're looking for.
Narrow it down to
the
5 or 6 that you absolutely must have in your relationship.
Here is a list of qualities you may want to consider.
- Does she has admirable integrity?
- Do you respect her as a person and as a woman?
- Does she respect you as a person and as a man?
- Does she treat you with respect?
- Does she makes you feel terrific?
- Does she appreciate what you do for her?
- Does she make you feel important?
- Is she proud to introduce you to her family and
friends?
- Does she respond to your generosity with
appreciation and occasionally spends money on you?
- Is she kind, nurturing and friendly to others?
- Is she responsible with money?
But
most important: What does your intuition tell you? What does
your gut say? Is she the right one?
A lot of these love tests you will find come down to..."what does your
instincts tell you".
Once you've addressed "the entire package"...and considered all the
positives and negatives, how do "you" feel about it?
In addition
to the love
tests discussion here, don't forget our other topics in the dating match section
such as: love
psychic readings, love
spells, love
calculator, love tarot,
horoscope
love match and Chinese
zodiac sign.
In the mood for something romantic?
Don' forget to check out our flirting,
romantic ideas,
best love, first time and love ideas sections
for more inspiration.
|
|
|
