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Endless Love is
Something We Can All Achieve
Is your love and
endless love?
Many of us have asked that question to
ourselves.
We are all curious if our love will last forever.
Having
grown up watching fairytales and movies portraying a "forever after"
scenario, it is easy to feel that love will last forever.
Elements
of the fairytale experience can, and should be, a real part of a
lasting, loving relationship.
There's no reason
that "forever afters" can't exist, and hopefully they do exist with
your partner now.
 True love
is a decision of the will.
It's a choice based on many factors, including that "in love" feeling
you have for your partner.
Endless love is made up
of more than just that wonderful feeling that makes your heart flutter
when you first meet.
True love doesn't begin until
two people really get to know each other and from there build a
stronger connection, loving relationship, and a lasting commitment.
Such
a relationship takes work, understanding, compromises, flexibility,
forgiveness, good communication and much more.
Are
you curious if your love will last forever?
If
you can agree with all of these questions...then you no doubt have an
endless love.
If not...don't despair. Part
of a strong relationship involves open and honest
communication. Try talking with you partner about it and see
where it leads.
- When you see your steady
unexpectedly it makes you feel happy.
- You
were friends before you were a couple.
- You
do not have to spend every free moment together to be happy.
- You
each have interests and activities all your own.
- Your
relationship is give and take, each of you gets his/her way sometimes.
- You
don't have to agree on everything.
- When
you disagree about something, no matter how small, it never ends in a
big fight.
- When the two of you
fight, no matter who started it, the person who was out of line is
usually the one to apologize first.
- Jealousy
should not be a part of a relationship.
- When
you and your partner are not together...it's ok.
- Your
partner is ok with you doing "stuff" without him/her.
- When
you do something your partner does not approve of he/she never tries to
make you feel bad.
- Your steady
is still friendly with his/her last girlfriend/boyfriend and you are OK
with that.
- You are still
friendly with your last girlfriend/boyfriend and your steady is OK with
that.
- When your partner has to
cancel plans with you, you don't worry that something is wrong.
- When
your partner goes out with friends you don't worry that he/she may be
cheating.
- You and your partner
both make time to spend alone with your friends.
- Your
partners' friends like you.
These are
just a few ideas of what it takes to have a special kind of
endless love that
will last forever.
Chemistry
is a part of it as well, but even beyond chemistry and the physical
attraction, a love that will last forever is based on a strong decision
to stay together.
Staying together is a lifetime
commitment, but just staying together is not good enough.
For
true love to last forever, it requires two people to remain open,
honest, and to change and grow not just individually, but also as a
couple.
As changes take place, a successful couple
manages to flow with the changes, and love each other through them all.
So...we
believe that love can love last forever. Truly, there's no reason for
love to ever end!
In
addition to the endless
love discussion here, don't forget our other topics in the first time section such
as: first dates, blind date, first kiss and find love.
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