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Divorce Advice
The Best
is Often Blunt
Divorce advice is as
varied and is dependent on many factors.
It sometimes
involves looking at the personal growth aspect of a divorce,
which can be a
springboard to another stage of life AND an opportunity to re-evaluate
your views on marriage, love, commitment, trust and personal needs.
This
internal approach is different that looking for advice on how to deal
with the myriad issues
surrounding divorce (e.g., loneliness, maintenance for the children)
and artificial coping mechanisms (e.g., joining a dating agency).
Relationship
therapy and relationship
counseling, even online
relationship advice, can help
to overcome these negative emotions, as can divorce advice from a good
friend who has perhaps gone through a similar process.
We
recommend you take all the divorce advice you can stand, weed out the
nonsense and then apply the "stuff" that seems right for you.
So...we've
come up with a list of divorce advice tips you should consider in order
to help you through this difficult time.
Use the ones that
apply to your situation, consider the others, ignore the rest.
Divorce
advice and how to handle life after a breakup.
- Take
a 10-30 minute walk every day. And while you walk, smile. It is the
ultimate antidepressant
- Sit in
silence for at least 10 minutes each day
- Buy
a TiVo (DVR) and tape your late night shows and get more sleep
- Watch
more movies, play more games, and read more books than you did last year
- Make
time to exercise, practice meditation, do yoga
- Dream
more while you are awake
- Try
to make at least three people smile each day
- Clear
your clutter from your house, your car, your desk, and let new and
flowing energy into your life
- Don't
waste your precious energy on gossip, energy vampires, issues of the
past, negative thoughts, or things you cannot control
- Instead,
invest your energy in the positive present moment
- Realize
that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply
part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra
class......but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime
- Smile
and laugh more. It will keep the energy vampires away
- Life
isn't fair, but it's still good
- Life
is too short to waste time hating anyone
- Don't
take yourself so seriously. No one else does
- You
don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree
- Make
peace with your past so it won't screw up the present
- Don't
compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all
about
- Ladies -- Go on and burn
those "special" scented candles, use the 600 thread count sheets, the
good china, and wear your fancy lingerie now. Stop waiting for a
special occasion. Everyday is special
- No
one is in charge of your happiness except you
- Frame
every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this
matter?"
- Forgive everyone for
everything
- What other people
think of you is none of your business
- Time
heals almost everything. Give time, time!
- However
good or bad a situation is, it will change
- Your
job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay
in touch with them
- Get rid of
anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful
- Envy
is a waste of time. You already have all you need
- No matter
how you feel, get up, dress up and show up
- Remember that you
are too blessed to be stressed
Hope this divorce
advice and tidbits will help you with your situation. Try it
out and see.
For
additional
relationship
help
advice, such as the divorce
advice section here, please visit the related
topics: relationship
therapy, relationship
counseling, troubled
relationship, marriage
help, relationship
coach, online relationship
advice and online
life coach.
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