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Body Language
in Dating
is a Vital Aspect to Understand
His/her body language will
often give you clear signs whether to
approach...or back off.
Although
experts differ in tine, most will say that it only takes a couple of
minutes for someone to tell if they are attracted to you.
Or
you
to them.
So, this might come to a relief for those who are stressed out
about how to introduce
yourself and which pickup
lines to use.
The decision may have been made a while back whether or not a person
might be interested. And the body queues are the key.
Being able to read body language can give your clues as to whether
someone has a romantic interest in you or not.
This
works great on first impressions. But that doesn't mean you
have
a free pass. Once you get by the initial introduction, you
have
to follow up with something worthwhile.
 We
make quick decisions
based on instinct, but it is interesting to note that much of our
personality is evident from our appearance, posture and the way we move.
So, how do we tell if our body is sending the right signals?
And more importantly how can we read theirs?
Let your body do the talking (and the flirting)
by learning to recognize the following:
Eye contact
- The
more intense the flirting, the more intensely we'll look from eye to
eye - and the more time we'll spend looking at their mouth.
- If
someone is watching your mouth while you're talking to them, it can be
very, very seductive. It could be that they're imagining what it would
be like to kiss you.
Mirroring
- This
is what separates a good flirt from a great flirt: nothing will bond
you more effectively than mirroring someone's behavior.
- This simply
means you do whatever it is they do. If they lean forward to tell you
something intimate, you lean in to meet them.
- Of course you don't want to come across like a
robot who is mimicking them. Act natural and spontaneous.
Eyebrows
- When
we first see someone we're attracted to, our eyebrows rise and fall. If
they are similarly attracted, they raise their eyebrows in return.
- Never noticed? It's not surprising since the
whole thing lasts only
about a fifth of a second!
Pointing
- Sneak
a peek at what their feet and hands are doing - we tend to point toward
the person we're interested in. If we find someone attractive, we'll
often point at them subconsciously with our hands arms, feet, legs,
toes.
Closeness
- How
close a person stands to you can be one of the most important body
language clues to whether someone is interested in you romantically or
not.
- Their proximity to you can be directly
proportional to their romantic interest in you.
- In other words the closer they stand to you the
more interested they are in you romantically.
Although body language is often subtle and subconscious it can also
send a clear message regarding romantic interest.
And
since body language is done without thought it allows the person to
send messages that they would be uncomfortable conveying verbally.
Consider
these rules about body language:
- Don't judge on one thing alone. Sitting with
your arms crossed is often perceived as a defensive, stand-off posture.
- But it might also mean the person is freezing
or just spilled coffee all over their shirt.
- And
don't jump to conclusions, instead look for more than one behavior.
Look for multiple signs suggesting the same thing before totally
believing it.
In addition to the body
language discussion here, don't forget our other topics in
the flirting section
such as: sexual
compatibility, flirting
advice, introduce
yourself, pickup
lines, social
network and love names.
In the mood for something romantic?
Don' forget to check out our best
love, first time
and romantic ideas
sections
for more inspiration.
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